I have come across many upbeat lists, but rarely have I seen a list of songs for the melancholy soul. Melancholy is best described as a feeling of pensive sadness, typically with no obvious cause. You could compare it to depression and if you think about it I’m sure you can think of at least one melancholy soul in your life. This list of songs for the melancholy soul are some of my favorite songs. Over the years I’ve added them to my playlist without realizing the connection. Do you find this list of songs for the melancholy soul comforting because you understand what it's like? Or do you find these songs to be a downer?
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1. Creep - Radiohead
This song is a classic. I love listening to it with this scene from "Ils se marièrent et eurent beaucoup d'enfants" aka "And They Lived Happily Ever After", starring Johnny Depp and Charlotte Gainsbourg.
2. Sitting on the Dock of the Bay - Otis Redding
This song used to make me cry as a little girl because I'd imagine this "old man" sitting alone by the water. It's still a classic and still stirs up my emotions.
Frequently asked questions
Melancholic songs often touch deep emotions and can be a comforting companion during tough times. They let you feel understood and not alone in your feelings.
A melancholic song usually has a slower tempo, haunting melodies, and poignant lyrics that evoke feelings of sadness, longing, or introspection.
Absolutely! Listening to melancholic music can be a form of emotional release, helping you process and work through feelings you might otherwise struggle to express.
'Say You Won't Let Go' captures a blend of beauty and vulnerability in its lyrics and tone, which can evoke a melancholic feeling, especially if it resonates with personal experiences of love and loss.
It's possible. While these songs can be comforting, overdoing it might deepen your sadness. It’s all about balance; mix in some uplifting tunes too!
3. Shadowboxer - Fiona Apple
I used to fall asleep to this entire cd by Fiona Apple when I was in middle school. Needless to say, I learned every single word to every single song. This has always been a melancholy favorite of mine.
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"Shadowboxer" is a hauntingly beautiful ballad that perfectly encapsulates the complexity of deceit and personal struggle. Fiona Apple's exquisite piano melodies intertwine with her emotional, sultry voice, creating an atmosphere that's deeply introspective. As the lyrics unfold the narrative of a vigilant heart bracing for the blows of a treacherous love, you can't help but feel the vulnerability and strength emanating from each verse. It's a powerful anthem for anyone who's ever been on guard, emotionally speaking, reminding us of the delicate dance between trust and caution.
4. Le Cafe Bleu - Soha
Have you ever heard a song in a different connection and the words didn't get in the way of connecting with the singer's message? I love this song and I don't even know what she's saying, but I can get a general sense from the feeling of it.
5. Don’t Know Why - Norah Jones
I love Norah Jones, don't you? This was her breakout hit and is still one of my favorite songs by her. There's something about her sweetness and reserved nature that I love.
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The melody wraps around you like a warm hug on a rainy day. Norah Jones' voice is like a soft whisper against the cheek, intimate and soothing. Don't Know Why captures that poignant feeling of a love that's just out of reach, the yearning for something more. The piano chords are like gentle raindrops, underscoring the sweet sadness of the lyrics. It's a song that embraces the soul with its tender grip, reminding us that there's beauty even in the aches of the heart. Perfect for those introspective moments when you need a companion in your solitude.
6. Sunday - Sia
This is some old school Sia, before she hit the airwaves singing about chandeliers. She's brilliant and this will always be a favorite of mine.
7. Sadness is a Blessing - Lykke Li
Lykke Li is a genius, that's pretty obvious. I love how this scene is shot, and though the song is incredibly sad I appreciate it. I'm not sure sadness is a blessing though. What do you think?
8. Goodbye Yellow Brick Road - Elton John
Elton's voice is so hauntingly beautiful in this song. I feel like I heard this song hundreds of times as background music before ever really listening to the words.
9. La Vie En Rose - Laura & Anton
Edith Piaf brought this song to life. But I always look for new versions of La Vie En Rose. I love this version.
10. Skinny Love - Birdy
I can relate to Birdy's heart and words, at least I have at times in my life. She's singing from her heart here.
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Birdy’s rendition of "Skinny Love," originally by Bon Iver, resonates on an almost tangible level, capturing the raw emotions of love that's fading or unfulfilled. Her version, with its haunting piano accompaniment, amplifies the song's melancholic essence, making it a cathartic anthem for those with bruised hearts. When you feel like your love story is tenuous and breaking at the seams, this track has the power both to soothe and to evoke the most intimate of heartaches. It's the musical equivalent of a silent, knowing nod to anyone who's ever been in love and lost.
11. The Scientist - Coldplay
Coldplay will always be my favorite band. It's hard to pick one song by them, but generally their songs make me want to run in the street and live life to the fullest. But this song is a bit melancholy and I love it for that reason.
12. House of Dreams - Naomi Pilgrim
Naomi Pilgrim is a bit under the radar, though she is friends with Lykke Li. I love this super dreamy video to go with this lovely song.
13. Anchor - Mindy Gledhill
When I first heard this song I played it on repeat. Then I searched for the video and instantly fell in love with the super creative Mindy Gledhill. I love this song.
14. Love is Blindness - Jack White
Jack White never ceases to amaze me. Though this song has an upbeat beat, you can still hear his pain in his voice.
15. I Will Follow You into the Dark - Death Cab for Cuties
Okay I have to admit, this song is a bit of a downer. But something about it is beautiful. I guess the idea of following a loved one anywhere, even into the scariest places. There have been times in life where I would have agreed, but I like the light now.
16. Carry on - Fun
I can't put my finger on why this song seems melancholy to me, but it made the list. What do you think?
17. Ho Hey - Lumineers
This song has a similar vibe to me as "Carry On".
18. Like a Star - Corrine Bailey Rae
The first time I saw Corrine Bailey Rae I had to know more about her. I wanted to be her friend and loved everything she exuded on screen. She's so lovely and her songs always tell great stories.
19. Clown - Emeli Sande
My friend told me about Emeli Sande for nearly a year before I gave her a serious listen. It's an amazing cd, with a few melancholy songs. This one I love.
20. King of Sorrow - Sade
Queen Sade, there is no one like her. She may be a melancholy Queen as well.
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Known for her smooth voice that drips with emotion, Sade delivers a bluesy depth in King of Sorrow that resonates with anyone who has ever felt the heavy cloak of sadness. The lyrics weave a tapestry of pain and reflection, matched impeccably by the sultry tones only she can produce. Watch the music video, absorbed by the narrative of struggle and the internal fight for peace amidst life's relentless challenges. Her unique brand of soul-infused music offers a comforting embrace to the melancholic heart, making this song a timeless companion for moments of introspection.
21. It Ain’t over Till It’s over - Lenny Kravitz
This song is for the lovers, on and offers, and those keeping hope alive in regards to love. It can be a rocky ride, but listen to Lenny's words!
Would you add any songs to this list? I’d love to know.
Comments
The: Skinny Love!!! I also love Words as Weapons by her.
Lucy: Listening to sad music is actually proven to make us feel better -- it's called emotional release; it provides a safe and sympathetic outlet for negative emotions
Garima: Love all these songs! Amazing! Thanks!
Inna: I also suggest Mumford & Sons and Laura Marling for the "melancholy soul" :)
Inna: Love Ho Hey and I Will Follow You Into the Dark!!!
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